A few days ago I got an email from a propective client.
Here’s the message I received:
“Hi Kristen,
I just read your story online and am interested in talking to you about joining your boot camp. I have literally been working my ass off the last year trying to get in shape and have seen some results, but not enough to keep me motivated to keep at it. I feel like I spend hours at the gym and have found it nearly impossible to drop the weight and get the muscle tone that I want too. And now, I feel like I am hitting a plateau. What should I do?”
I remember being at a point when I also felt this way and was almost ready to give up until I met my trainer. She made me realize that there is more to it than just putting on gym clothes one day and deciding you are going to start working out.
Now, whenever I hear from a new client who expresses frustration with working out for hours a day and not seeing results, the first thing I have to know from them is what does it mean to them personally to see results? What does your vision of your perfect body and health looks like?
Because if you don’t know what it means to you personally to get results, you will never know if you have gotten there… And that is a pretty frustrating existence! You will never feel like you are getting anywhere if you don’t know where you want to go.
So the first 3 things you have to ask yourself are:
1) What are my fitness goals?
2) Why are these important to me?
3) What would the positive changes in my life be after I achieve these goals?
Because that’s what we’re REALLY talking about in “feeling good” and being happy about your fitness results.
My guess is you probably don’t have as much clarity in this realm as you would truly benefit from having.
So allow yourself to take time in giving this more thought. Try to do this without other distractions going on.
And know that it is okay if these change once you get going. Because they will. That is why it is good to re-visit your goals regularly to make sure you never feel like you are sinking into a plateau.
In my experience working with hundreds of new clients, people will be really amped up in the beginning, but tend to forget why they wanted to get fit in the first place if they do not re visit their goals on a regular basis. Sometimes they start with the goal of weight loss and then realize they like how good it feels to be strong. In that moment, re-writing your goals can be extremely beneficial. When you do this, you can keep yourself excited and focused while you are working out all of the time.
Now, that you know what you want, how do you really keep from hitting a plateau?
So now that you have taken a step back to figure out what it is that you really want from your health and fitness, it is time to set yourself up for success. In my opinion, no one has done this better than our 2011-12 Member of the Year Nominees. (head on over and vote for your favorite success story when you get a chance.)
They have not only given themselves a target to shoot for, but they have realized that fitness isn’t a month long endeavor. Fitness is forever, should encompass all elements that make up a well – rounded program and takes ongoing work.
When people feel like they are hitting a plateau it is usually because of 1 of 5 reasons:
1) They did not re-visit or even develop goals in the first place
2) They got complacent during their workouts and just went through the motions without much effort instead of going to the gym with the mind set to give it their all
3) They forgot that working out is only a small piece of the puzzle. Lifestyle and nutrition account for nearly 80%.
4) They started only focusing on 1 aspect of their workouts (stretching but not the cardio, cardio but not the strength, strength but not the mobility work, etc.)
5) They stopped pushing themselves because they got bored (which usually comes down to the fact that they do not remember why they wanted to workout in the first place).
Bottom line is that it all comes down to having a clear vision. Once you clear this up everything you do will be heading in the same direction as what you ultimately want…
I know that most people have trouble figuring this stuff out on their own so don’t be ashamed if you have never thought about your “fitness wish list”. To help you clear things up for yourself, we are inviting you to a HUGE and FREE event Tuesday March 6th at 7pm (at the Sports Basement in Potrero) called “Make 2012 Your Best Year Ever!”
All we ask is that you bring a small $10 donation that will benefit the Boys & Girls Club of San Francisco. Make sure to go here to read all about it and sign up here.
We will have 2 motivational speakers that will be revealing ground breaking ways to make yourself healthier, stay fit for life, and re-develop your mind set to be successful long term… Space is limited so make sure you get on our VIP list today!







